20 Secrets To Surviving In Your First Semester At University or College

Arriving at university or college will be daunting forbeer-monster; you don't have to drink all the time. If
everyone. For many it may mean living away fromfriends have a problem with you ordering soft drinks
the parental home for the first time, which on it'swhen you want, they're probably not the friends you
own may be daunting enough. You will most likelyneed. Drinking soft drinks is easier on the pocket, not
have a hundred questions and a hundred fears; whatto mention healthier.
will it be like? Can I cope with the workload? Will I be14. Beer sessions.. It's a good idea to leave the beer
able to fit in? It may help to know that everyone willuntil the weekend when you haven't got to worry as
be feeling similar, though some may hide it bettermuch about getting it together the next day.
than others.15. Don't let everything get bottled up. Talk to
Invariably the vast majority of freshers will besomebody, family and friends or a student help line.
pleasantly surprised. The University or College will beBeing away from home, especially for the first time
populated by a broad variety of people, from manycan make you feel well lonely and lost. Talking about
walks of life with a diverse range of outlooks andit usually puts everything into perspective.
opinions. Look beyond the initial confines of your16. Cooking. The curry house on the corner may do
college, house or dorm, the establishment will havestudent specials. Take-away burgers may an easy
many more people who will share similar interests tooption when you have a stack of work to do. But
yourself. Some of the tips we have received fromyour money won't see you through the term. It
other students:really will be like throwing it away. Try cooking. Get a
1. Meet as many people as you can, introducefew basics in, salt, pepper, gravy mix, (goes with
yourself, smile and be confident. Everyone is in theeverything). If you're house sharing, perhaps chip in.
same boat whether he or she appears to be or not.Veg stews are pretty easy, gut-filling and cheap,
2. Be yourself. Real friends will want to know you forespecially if you go to the veg shop. You'll find a
who you are, warts and all!good cookbook worth the investment too. Ask the
3. Keep your opinions about others to yourself untilbookshop for one for the catering students course!
you know whom you can trustIt'll have everything step by step.
4. Take your washing to the laundry. Don't save it all17. When you're going out for the night. Take just as
up to take back home to mum at the hols. She reallymuch as you need, or want to spend. It's very easy
won't want five minging black bags to see to.to have a few more beers when you've already had
5. Have a good timea few.
6. Join a few societies at first week fairs. If you're18. Clubs and stuff, almost all charge a joining a fee
not sure it's for you but are interested take note ofor pay-as-you-go. They are excellent for meeting
an e-mail/ contact address to get more details later.people, blowing off steam, getting invites, finding
Its sometimes hard to find the right contacts later,something to take your mind off your subjects for
it's a big place.an hour or two. But they can have a scary impact on
7. Phone home and let your family know you're allyour pocket. Whilst you may want to try climbing,
right, (even if you don't exactly feel it). They'resky diving, hockey and archery, stick to a few you
probably more worried than you are.know you'll like and will be able to keep up with. You
8. Everyone feels at least a little homesick at first,won't have time for all of them anyway.
and worried or just on a down. Talk to new friends19. Live your first year as best as you can, you're
you feel you can trust, and maybe write/call friendsonly a fresher once.
at home.20. The ''B'' word .. When you have a fat student loan
9. You're at Uni for a few years, make the most ofin your bank balance, the easiest thing to do is spend
it, it's over before you know it. Then you'll miss theit, it's just sitting there itching to be used. Don't. (Or
freedom and long holidays.starve) There's this word you'll know very well by
10. Keep in touch with family and friends at home,the time you leave University ''Budget''. Plan ahead so
e-mail is easiest.you don't end up with too much debt. Sit down and
11. Don't hang round with one little group ignoringwork out what you've got coming in, what has to go
everyone else. You'll miss out on the chance ofout, rent etc. If there's anything left over divide that
making other good friends as well.by how many weeks until the next cheque clears.
12. Seriously don't be careless with your money - it isThen half that; you will need panic money some way
the little extras here and there that have a way ofdown the line. Remember there's always stuff you'll
quickly draining your bank account!need that you don't put in the budget, stuff you just
13. Don't let peer pressure turn you into aoverlook - shampoo, photocopying, and toothpaste.